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Read more about the article How Often Should You Meditate?

How Often Should You Meditate?

  • Post author:Konstantin Lapshin
  • Post published:June 8, 2022
  • Post last modified:June 9, 2022

Meditation is a useful practice for learning how to regulate your emotions and calm your mind, but you might be unsure of how much time to dedicate to meditation each…

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Read more about the article 26 Tricks That Instantly Improve Your Meditations

26 Tricks That Instantly Improve Your Meditations

  • Post author:Konstantin Lapshin
  • Post published:June 4, 2022
  • Post last modified:June 6, 2022

Chances are slim that you will become a truly enlightened being through meditation alone, though that should not stop you from trying. Meditation is one of the greatest things you…

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Read more about the article 11 Self-Discipline Exercises You Can Do Right Now

11 Self-Discipline Exercises You Can Do Right Now

  • Post author:Konstantin Lapshin
  • Post published:June 1, 2022
  • Post last modified:June 5, 2022

One of the most challenging things in life is learning self-discipline. It is a valuable skill that can be directed into so many different aspects of life. Like any other…

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Read more about the article The 14 Ultimate Pros and Cons of Self-Help Books

The 14 Ultimate Pros and Cons of Self-Help Books

  • Post author:Konstantin Lapshin
  • Post published:May 29, 2022
  • Post last modified:May 30, 2022

Self-help is one of the most important ways to maintain a sound mind. Oftentimes, practicing self-help can be extremely beneficial in becoming acquainted with yourself. Whether you need a quick…

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Read more about the article Is It Bad to Have No Ambition?

Is It Bad to Have No Ambition?

  • Post author:Konstantin Lapshin
  • Post published:May 28, 2022
  • Post last modified:May 29, 2022

A lack of ambition is associated with failure. However, having tempered expectations is a great way to keep yourself on the straight and narrow, as will be discussed here. Psychologists…

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Read more about the article Your Guide to Becoming a Confident Introvert

Your Guide to Becoming a Confident Introvert

  • Post author:Konstantin Lapshin
  • Post published:October 1, 2021
  • Post last modified:May 22, 2022

Most people believe that introverts are not as confident as extroverts. Just because this group tends to be quieter and more self-reflective – as opposed to extremely social and “the…

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Read more about the article Motivation vs. Enthusiasm: What’s the Difference?

Motivation vs. Enthusiasm: What’s the Difference?

  • Post author:Konstantin Lapshin
  • Post published:September 9, 2021
  • Post last modified:May 22, 2022

Motivation and enthusiasm are often used together or interchangeably. It's possible to be motivated without enthusiasm. Enthusiasm reinforces motivation, resulting in a greater will to act. But, can you be…

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Read more about the article 10 Ways to Stop Being Affected by Others’ Comments

10 Ways to Stop Being Affected by Others’ Comments

  • Post author:Konstantin Lapshin
  • Post published:September 9, 2021
  • Post last modified:May 22, 2022

Whether you’re dealing with internet know-it-alls or negative people in your life, negative comments can hurt. People can be cruel. Sometimes, they just want to bring you down and there’s…

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Read more about the article Your Complete Guide to Meditating for a Whole Hour

Your Complete Guide to Meditating for a Whole Hour

  • Post author:Konstantin Lapshin
  • Post published:August 10, 2021
  • Post last modified:May 27, 2022

Meditating for a whole hour is an achievable goal that offers both physical and mental health benefits. 20 minutes of meditation drastically changes the quality of your life, so what…

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Read more about the article What Is the Difference Between Meditation and Prayer?

What Is the Difference Between Meditation and Prayer?

  • Post author:Konstantin Lapshin
  • Post published:May 18, 2021
  • Post last modified:May 22, 2022

When people think of relaxing and becoming more spiritually connected, usually one of two thoughts come to mind: either kneeling and praying to a higher power or that of sitting…

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Read more about the article What Does It Say About You if You Prefer Being Alone?

What Does It Say About You if You Prefer Being Alone?

  • Post author:Konstantin Lapshin
  • Post published:October 20, 2020
  • Post last modified:May 22, 2022

For some people, the thought of spending time alone sounds about as appealing as eating raw eggs. But for others, including me, it is a vacation from the world. What…

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Read more about the article How to Communicate with People Who Think They’re Failures?

How to Communicate with People Who Think They’re Failures?

  • Post author:Konstantin Lapshin
  • Post published:October 16, 2020
  • Post last modified:May 22, 2022

Everyone has dealt with some level of self-judgment in their lives. That internal voice that tells you “you aren’t good enough, you’re a failure, you’re worthless, no one likes you…”…

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Read more about the article Can You Be Shy and Confident at the Same Time?

Can You Be Shy and Confident at the Same Time?

  • Post author:Konstantin Lapshin
  • Post published:September 29, 2020
  • Post last modified:November 15, 2020

Can You Be Shy And Confident At The Same Time? Shyness and confidence don’t always seem to go hand-in-hand. Often, a person appears to be one or the other. The…

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Read more about the article 6 Reasons You Can’t Speak Up in Groups

6 Reasons You Can’t Speak Up in Groups

  • Post author:Konstantin Lapshin
  • Post published:September 26, 2020
  • Post last modified:November 15, 2020

For the more shy, introverted, or awkward among us—group conversations can be a real nightmare. It’s sometimes difficult in a group setting to find your voice and speak up, especially…

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Read more about the article Here’s the Difference Between Plans and Goals

Here’s the Difference Between Plans and Goals

  • Post author:Konstantin Lapshin
  • Post published:September 23, 2020
  • Post last modified:November 15, 2020

Whatever you want to achieve out of life, knowing the difference between plans and goals and how to use them will be integral to your success. The two terms sound…

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Read more about the article Do Introverts Have Low Self-Esteem?

Do Introverts Have Low Self-Esteem?

  • Post author:Konstantin Lapshin
  • Post published:September 19, 2020
  • Post last modified:November 21, 2020

Do Introverts Have Low Self-Esteem?Many people consider avoidance of large social gatherings as a sign of low self-esteem. They may want to help their friends overcome their fears of people…

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Read more about the article Is Motivation the Same as Desire?

Is Motivation the Same as Desire?

  • Post author:Konstantin Lapshin
  • Post published:September 8, 2020
  • Post last modified:September 12, 2020

Is motivation the same as desire? No, they're not the same thing. This article explains the difference, and gives you practical advice to get benefit from both.

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Read more about the article Is There a Difference Between Mindfulness and Awareness?

Is There a Difference Between Mindfulness and Awareness?

  • Post author:Konstantin Lapshin
  • Post published:September 3, 2020
  • Post last modified:October 24, 2020

Mindfulness is a popular topic, perhaps now more than ever, because of its many benefits. It is a type of learned or practiced awareness that involves being fully present in…

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Read more about the article This Is Why You Keep Changing Your Goals

This Is Why You Keep Changing Your Goals

  • Post author:Konstantin Lapshin
  • Post published:September 2, 2020
  • Post last modified:September 12, 2020

Why do I keep changing my goals? Why do they seem to change so often? Is it good, or is there something wrong with the goals you are setting? Here's why...

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Read more about the article Does Self-Discipline Get Easier?

Does Self-Discipline Get Easier?

  • Post author:Konstantin Lapshin
  • Post published:June 25, 2020
  • Post last modified:September 3, 2020

Everyone loves a bit of self-discipline here and there, but most of us are not able to sustain it. That’s because self-discipline is hard, really hard. And that's not a…

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Read more about the article A Great Free Tool to Come Up With New Ideas on Topic

A Great Free Tool to Come Up With New Ideas on Topic

  • Post author:Konstantin Lapshin
  • Post published:October 2, 2019
  • Post last modified:September 3, 2020

Mind mapping is one of the best exercises I know when you need to come up with a solution to a complicated problem, declutter your mind, regain focus or come…

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Read more about the article A Handshake Is Important for First Impression. Master it.

A Handshake Is Important for First Impression. Master it.

  • Post author:Konstantin Lapshin
  • Post published:January 5, 2019
  • Post last modified:September 3, 2020

A handshake is a very common form of greeting in the business world and personal life. This is one of those things that one gesture speaks a thousand words about…

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Read more about the article How to Set Up Better Goals?

How to Set Up Better Goals?

  • Post author:Konstantin Lapshin
  • Post published:January 3, 2019
  • Post last modified:September 3, 2020

December, 31st. A great day to make New Year's resolutions. Or not. Who has never had a goal, swearing to yourself to lose weight, or to hit the gym and…

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I share my journey diving into personal development world, meditation, self-awareness, and some of the most important things to me—questions surrounding happiness, meaning, and the role of suffering in our lives. I like doing research on things I don't know, discover, contemplate and share what I find as I try to figure out my life.

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